12 to 24 Months

You are here

12 to 24 Months

This period in your child's development heralds a major change in your lived experience as a parent. Your child is beginning to use language to commuicate with you and their ability to move, anywhere, is changing by the day. Your child's movement and language acquisition patterns will complement one another. Whilst your child is busy developing their language skills, their development of new 'moves' will plateau. Then once they have made the language acquisition they were working on, their movement will take off again.


  • 1 word by 1 year old is the general rule of thumb with children's language development.
  • You are your child's greatest resource when it comes to language and communication. Your child will watch your mouth avidly when you speak, they are taking in the way in which your lips move in order to form the words. If you are trying to show your child something by demonstrating with your hands, be sure not to speak as they will watch your mouth instead!
  • Naming things in your child's environment will provide them with a rich source of language.
  • Your baby will enjoy spending time reading books, with you and on their own. Books with 1 or 2 words to a page and simple stories will be most engaging.


Some children learn to walk before their first birthday and others take until 16 months or longer. Your baby will reach each milestone in their own time. The developmental continuum looks like this.


  • New walkers benefit from going barefoot. It provides them with greater sensory feedback and makes it easier to learn how to walk.
  • New walkers tend to fall over. Your child will need a environment which is safe to learn and practice walking in.
  • Young children love learning how to walk up and down stairs, climb hills and run. Safe outdoor spaces will help with this.
  • Games such as 'Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes' will help your child develop body awareness.
  • Even if you provide a safe place for your child to practice refining their walking skills, they will probably still fall over. Learning how to fall without injury is a skill and your child will need practice to learn how to catch themselves.

Love and connection

  • Young children need secure and loving relationships, which enable them to moderate their stress levels. These significant relationships can include the mother and father, other family members and also caregivers such as childcare workers. When your child feels loved, this feeds their healthy brain development.
  • Feeling loved and accepted supports your child's emotional and social growth and development.
  • Young children recieve their information about how to behave in social situations by watching the adults in their lives. You are their role model.
  • This is a great time to begin teaching your child about emotions. The simplest way to do this is to connect with your child when they are emotional by acknowledging their feelings verbally and non-verbally (hugs)  e.g. 'You're feeling sad, aren't you?' This lets your child know that you have understood and it names the feeling for them. It is important to your child that their feelings are acknowledged and that you are there to provide comfort.
  • It can also be helpful to let them know that although they are feeling sad now, later on they will feel better. This is the beginning of lessons around differentiating between their feelings and their sense of self, or 'I feel' and 'I am'.


  • The word 'discipline' really means 'to teach', rather than 'to punish'. When we think about disciplining a young child, we can think about using challenging behaviours and times of conflict as opportunities to help our child to learn and build new skills.
  • Very young children have limited capacity for self-discipline. They need support from us to learn what is appropriate and how to regulate their behaviour.
  • When 'correcting' your toddler's behaviour try to connect first and then redirect them. For example, if your child bites another child, you could connect with them first, 'You're frustrated aren't you?" Then once your child has more control and is able to listen, you could provide the key message you wish to convey and set the boundary, 'Biting hurts, Be gentle.' Then you can redirect by moving them on to something else, 'Let's go and look at the fish in the pond.'